8.30.2009

Two wonderful years, and the promise of forever

Two years ago today Brian and I were married in the Salt Lake Temple.  It was a beautiful day that I have many beautiful memories of.  Looking back I can't believe all that has happened in such a short time.  I never would have imagined that my life would have changed so much since our wedding day.  Not only are we many miles away from either of our parents, but we now have a beautiful little girl.

Brian has proved to me time and time again that he is the perfect man for me, and that I made the right choice when I married him.  He has stuck by me through the hard times, and laughed with me through the good times.  And now he has become an amazing daddy to our Elizabeth.

I love you Brian!
Always and Forever!

The first little bit at Home (August 21-30)

It was so nice to be able to come home from the hospital with Elizabeth.  Brian and I have loved having Elizabeth as a part of our lives.  She has brought such a brightness, and joy to our days.  It has been quite the adventure figuring out how to care for our little girl, and we are learning something new all the time.

Elizabeth is finally home!





A few pictures of Brian feeding Elizabeth


 



Some adorable little toes



Trying out the thumb


Such a beautiful, smiley baby!

First ride in the stroller

 
A few of my favorite snapshots of Elizabeth

 
 

8.21.2009

The hospital stay (August 20 & 21)

The stay at the hospital was both good and annoying.  The doctors and nurses were all wonderful.  Brian and I learned a lot about how to take care of our new Elizabeth.  We are especially indebted to Deb, the Lactation Consultant, that found out why Elizabeth wasn't doing very well the second night, and taught us what to do to help her get enough food.

On the other hand, I could not get a good nights sleep while we were at the hospital.  I didn't sleep the night before Elizabeth was born because I was in labor, and then the first night at the hospital I couldn't sleep with all of the sounds of the hospital, then Elizabeth wasn't happy the second night because she wasn't getting enough food, so no one slept.  So, I looked forward to going back to my own bed.

Here are some of the pictures of Elizabeth while we where at the hospital after she was born.

 Elizabeth loves having her tongue sticking out


Showing off all of her beautiful dark hair
 

Here is Elizabeth spending her last moments in her first bed
before we got ready to go home from the hospital on Friday

8.19.2009

Elizabeth's arrival

On Tuesday morning I started out th day with a few contractions, but they were more than an hour apart so I didn't think to much about them. As the day went on the contractions continued, but still far apart. We had some friends come over to visit and bring a gift, and then I ran to get one of my massages. After I got home that evening(completely relaxed), I started to have contractions more often and harder(there goes the relaxation from the massage). I then knew that this was the real deal.

Brian put everything together for the hospital, and did some cleaning while I tried to work though the contractions(Brian helping me out since they were getting painful). With things all ready to go we went to bed. Well, let me just say that waking up to a contraction is really awful, I do not recommend it. After a couple of hours of trying and failing to get some sleep, I went into the nursery.

I spent the rest of the night reading, and working through one contraction at a time. I decided to let Brian sleep because I knew that a long day was ahead of us, and that I would need him more later. It was a long night, and I was so glad when Brian woke up the next morning, he did a great job helping me through the next hours of contractions.

I had a doctors appointment set up for the afternoon, so when it got close to the time for it Brian called and asked them if they wanted me to come in(my contractions were not regular, and my water hadn't broken so I wasn't sure if I should go to the hospital yet). After explaining what had been going on they told him to take me to Labor and Delivery. Brian packed up the car while I got dressed and we headed to the hospital.

At the hospital we waited a bit for them to check me, but after they did things got moving pretty fast for a little while. I was already dilated to a six, and they said that I could have come in sooner. This was also the time that they would have me decide if I wanted an epidural or not. I was not planning on having one before, but I was so tired because of no sleep the night before, and I knew that I had a lot more to go through before it was over, and I need some rest, so I decided to get one.

Before they could give me the epidural they need to do some blood work, so they gave me some medication in my IV, and a shot to help me while I waited. They had to stick me about three times to get the IV in, and then three or four times to draw my blood. It was not fun. After getting the medication through the IV I quickly felt it's effects. And I still felt it's effects after Elizabeth was born. It didn't wear off until after about eight hours(the nurses could tell that I am not one that takes medication very often).

They finally gave me the epidural, but it didn't work all of the way. The inside of my right thigh would feel every single contraction that I had. They said to fix it they would have to redo the whole thing, and so it was left as it was.

I don't remember a lot of details of what happened afterward, so I am mainly going off of what Brian told me. After they gave me the medication in the IV Elizabeth's heart rate had dropped just a little bit, but nothing to concerning. After a while they had turned me over to one side, and her heart rate dropped significantly, and didn't come back up so they had me switch sides again(to the side that hurt whenever I had a contraction), and put me on oxygen. Thankfully, this was what Elizabeth needed and her heart rate went back up.

At about seven o'clock that night Elizabeth was getting ready to be born. I started pushing just after seven. This was really hard for me because the drug was still making me extremely drowsy and I just wanted to be able to sleep it off.

Elizabeth Adelaide was born thirty-seven minutes later, at 7:40 PM(everyone said that for a first baby I pushed her out really fast). She decided that she didn't want to come out the usual way, and came out looking straight up(posterior). She had the umbilical cord wrapped around her neck(like her mommy, but only once instead of twice), and probably around her arm too.

Elizabeth was born healthy and strong. Brian and I love her completely and are grateful she is finally here. She has already brought us such happiness.

Elizabeth Adelaide




August 19, 2009

7:40 PM

6 pounds 14 ounces

20 1/4 inches long



Elizabeth's Birthday

Our first family picture with Elizabeth
Elizabeth holding on tight to Daddy's finger
A very happy new Daddy!
Mommy cuddling with Elizabeth
Elizabeth's first weighing
We are so happy to have Elizabeth Adelaide in our family, and are grateful that she is such a healthy and strong little girl.

8.15.2009

Some last things

Brian and I have been pretty busy the last month working on getting ready for our baby. We have had project after project that we have done, and have enjoyed watching the nursery come together! We have added our own touches to practically everything that is in the nursery, and built a lot of memories, too! (I will post some pictures and descriptions of the nursery later.)

The last couple of weeks Brian and I have realized that there are going to be a lot of changes when our baby comes. We know that there will be some things that we won't be able to do for a while after she is born, so we have been doing some of this, as we dream of when baby will come.

Some of the fun things that we have done are...

...a trip to Niagara Falls and Palmyra.

We did this in the middle of July when Brian's parents came out to visit us for a week. We had a great time seeing the falls. We had a great time walking around taking pictures of the Falls, and then even went behind them. We also went to the Butterfly conservatory (which was amazing!), and walked around the gardens.

We then made our way to Palmyra, New York for the pageant, and some church history sites. It was fantastic! We really enjoyed the pageant, and the sites were great. I loved being in the Sacred Grove, it was so beautiful and peaceful there.

...go see a movie in the theater.

Brian and I hadn't been to the movies in a very long time, at least a year, so we decided to celebrate our second anniversary a month early(since Baby will be here by our real anniversary) by going and seeing the movie UP. We loved the movie, and I admit I did cry a couple of times, but remember I am pregnant:) Afterwards we did some window shopping like we used too. It was so much fun just looking at some different shops and day dreaming together.

...a nice celebration dinner.

Last weekend Brian decided to make me an AMAZING dinner. To tide me and the baby over had gave us an appetizer of animal crackers, and orange slices. He made homemade pizza, ribs, corn on the cob, and we shared a lemonade with strawberries, and pineapple that was in a young coconut that Brian had picked up. He would not let me help him make anything, except put on my own toppings for the pizza. The food was delicous and the company amazing.

...taking pictures of my baby belly.

On monday evening Brian took me to a beautiful garden that he found on one of his bike rides and took some pictures of me so that we can remember just how big I got with this pregnancy. It was so nice and peaceful.

...go on a paddle boat.

On Tuesday afternoon we went to a nearby park and rented a paddle boat for an hour. Brian did all of the paddling and had a great time playing around with it. We saw a turtle sunning himself on a log and found that the island in the middle of the lake is really two. It was so nice and relaxing, and lots of fun just being on the water.

...sitting on the tailgate and stargazing.

On Tuesday night I started to see a few shooting stars from the metor shower from our window, so Brian took me out driving to find some an open area too see the sky better. Let me tell you that finding an area without a lot of trees to block your view in Michigan, is almost like finding a needle in a haystack, but we finally found the perfect place. We stopped and sat on the tailgate of the truck and watched for the shooting stars. Brian was only able to see a few, but I saw around ten in all, one of them was really bright and long. It was so cool!

Well, these are some of the many fun things that we have done in the last little bit. It has been fun building these memories, and we really look forward to making many more wonderful memories with our baby when she comes!

8.05.2009

Baby Shower

Last night my friends had a baby shower for me and Baby. My friend Erin put it together with the help of Melinda and Raelynne, a couple of really nice new friends. They were wonderful and creative for this fun event. It turned out to be more wonderful then I could have imagined!

I am so glad that I made sure to bring my camera! The cake that Raelynne made was AMAZING!!! And the best part is that it was only her second time making one!

Erin also made a really cute decoration out of the watermelon! I have such talented friends!

The food was wonderful, and quite healthy, too.

I was amazed by the overwhelming generosity, support, and love that I felt at the shower. There were between 15 to 20 people that came to the baby shower, and all of them brought such generous gifts. Brian and I were blown away by the amount of things that we were given to help us prepare for our baby. I am so glad that we live in such a wonderful ward, and have been able to make some great friends.

6.24.2009

Visits, a wedding, and a baby

Sleeping in...
Reading...
Swimming pools...
Picnics in the park...
Relaxing...
Hot days...
Sprinklers...
Water fights...
Popsicles...
Ice cream...
Night games...
No school...
Watermelon seed spitting contests...
Friends...
Family...

...this is what I think of whenever I hear the word summer. When I was in grade school, these are the things that I would count down to the last day of school for. It would have never entered my mind that summer would ever mean anything different to me. Many of these things still apply, but now add to it the responsibilities, and demands that come when you grow up and leave your parents home. Some things get squeezed out of the list and replaced with other things. That is how summer is for me this year.

With Brian working on his PhD, he doesn't stop when summer starts. He's not taking classes, but he is teaching them. This makes things tighter to schedule summer fun around. As soon as Brian finishes teaching we are going to have a few visitors come see us.

Brian's friend Sean is stationed right now in Fort Knox, and he has the weekend for the 4th of July off, so he is going to come visit us for a long weekend. We look forward to having him come, he has been a good friend to Brian.

After that we will be having Brian's parents out to stay with us for a week. We really look forward to them coming out. We are hoping to be able to go to Niagara Fall's, and Palmyra while they are here. Brian's mom also really wants to see Lake Michigan, so we will be doing a trip out there as well. Then when they leave Brian and I will be flying to Utah for my sister's, Celeste, wedding(hopefully).

Celeste is getting married on the 25th of July, and my pregnancy will be full term(37 weeks along) on July 26th. I talked to my doctor, and she said that I most likely will be able to go, but I have to go in the week before to be checked and then if everything looks okay, she will sign a note for me to fly. She made that comment that it could be interesting having my water break during the wedding, I am sure Celeste want that day to be memorable, but I doubt that is what she is talking about. So, we are all hoping the baby waits until after the wedding to make her debut.

6.09.2009

A VERY RUDE AWAKENING

With the pregnancy I have developed a sleep pattern that I wake up early in the morning, around 5 or 6ish for a couple of hours, then go back to sleep for a few more hours. So this morning as I was working on going back to sleep I had almost drifted back to sleep when I felt an annoying hair on my cheek. I gently brushed it away, but then it fell back onto my cheek. I then went to grab this hair, and instead found that it was not a hair, but a SPIDER! I called to Brian, and my knight in shining armor quickly found and killed the beast, but I still couldn't go back to sleep on the bed that a spider had just been on so I went and slept on the couch. What an awful way to start the day!